Stay With Me is used when you want to keep your lover close, whether to keep them from straying or just to keep them close to home instead of staying out late and prowling around town with their friends.
Stay With Me is not a straight-up Binding or Compelling-type formula, though it does have a mild element of compelling power in it. But as a whole formula, it works on strengthening the connections that you have and are building to your relationship and home together. So it's not one of those "do as I say" formulas designed to put their teeth in the dirt and your foot on their back, although it's certainly meant to get your lover to do what you want in terms of sticking around.
If you don't like floral formulas but do like doing love work, you'll probably like Stay With Me scent-wise. Unlike many, many formulas that focus on love, this one is rather more spicy and herbal than sweet, and while there are flowering herbs among the ingredients included in your bottle of oil, none of the essential oils I use to make this formula are of the sweet floral type.
Half-ounce bottle.
HANDLING TIMES: Please note published handling times, which start at 5-10 business days; will be longer for large, customized, and international orders; and are estimates only. I do custom work, not mass production, and personal attention takes time. I want you to love what you get from our shop, and I think you will if you value quality and authenticity. But if quick shipping is a higher priority for you, we'll probably both be happier if you shop elsewhere.
I make all my formulas in tiny batches with personal attention at every step, and I stock only what I know I can use within a certain shelf life. That means I can have unexpected runs on ingredients that I need to reorder or that I have to go to the back two acres and dig up more of a root I need to make your item. Hardly anything is sitting on a shelf waiting to be popped into an envelope. The payoff for your patience is that you get fresh blends and fresh products, made by hand the old fashioned way, by a traditional rootworker with 35 years of experience.
Also, I live in the middle of nowhere and I have to expect time-sucking delays as par for the course, like the internet going down 'cause a cow broke the line, stuff like that. So if you must have an item by a certain date, you need to write me first to see whether I can meet your expectations rather than assuming (or demanding). See the
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USAGE: Oils are for prayer and ritual use; they are not cosmetics or perfumes. While some customers do use some dressing oils as anointing oils (which is not the same thing as wearing a perfume or cologne), they are careful to do a skin test first, since they know that all-natural does not equal hypoallergenic. If you need suggestions on how to use condition and anointing oils in the conjure tradition, see the Education link up top.
LEGALESE: As required by law, all items are sold as curios to preserve and teach the traditions of folklore and popular religion. I don't sell anything I don't use myself, though, and quite a few customers over the years have sworn by my traditional formulas since I started selling them in 2002.
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